Iconic actress Bette Midler reveals the surprisingly unconventional key to her long-lasting marriage: separate bedrooms. Despite her initial reluctance towards her daughter's acting aspirations, she now embraces their shared passion on the silver screen.
In an exclusive interview with Entertainment Tonight, Bette Midler has lifted the veil on her nearly four-decade-long marital bliss with husband Martin von Haselberg, attributing their enduring bond to an unusual arrangement: separate bedrooms.
"My husband snores," the "Hocus Pocus" star candidly admitted. "We've always had separate bedrooms – it's a fabulous ride!"
Bette Midler's Marriage Secret: Separate Bedrooms and a Fabulous Ride
Midler's non-traditional approach to marital living has proven to be a resounding success. She married von Haselberg in a whirlwind romance in December 1984, mere six weeks after they met, and together they welcomed their beloved daughter, Sophie.
Midler's upcoming film, "The Fabulous Four," marks a special milestone as she shares the screen with her talented daughter. Despite her initial hesitation about Sophie pursuing an acting career, she is now filled with immense pride.
Bette Midler's Marriage Secret: Separate Bedrooms and a Fabulous Ride
"I was extremely apprehensive [about letting her become an actress]," Midler said of Sophie's aspirations. "I was worried about her, and she was just a little girl. I regret saying, ‘If you go into show business, I’ll kill you.’ She took it to heart. But she's brilliant. She's incredible. She's the love of my life."
In addition to her personal life, Midler has been open about her decision to enhance her appearance through plastic surgery.
Bette Midler's Marriage Secret: Separate Bedrooms and a Fabulous Ride
"Time has a way of smoothing everything out," Midler said at the Costume Designers Guild Awards in 2023. "I've been in the industry for almost 60 years, and I still look fabulous – I know. I've had some tailoring done on my face."
Midler's refreshingly honest approach to aging has endeared her to fans who appreciate her genuine and relatable nature.
Reflecting on her extraordinary life and career, Midler expressed her gratitude for the unwavering support of her loved ones.
"I've had so much love in my life," she said. "My husband, my daughter, my friends – they've all made me who I am today. I'm truly blessed."
Midler's story is a testament to the diverse paths that can lead to happiness and fulfillment. By embracing her unique approach to marriage, parenting, and self-care, she has crafted a life that is both unconventional and utterly enchanting.
