Seaman 1st Class Frank Hryniewicz, killed during the attack on Pearl Harbor, was identified and laid to rest with full military honors 80 years later.
Seaman 1st Class Frank Hryniewicz of Three Rivers, Massachusetts, was one of 429 U.S. service members killed aboard the USS Oklahoma when the Japanese attacked Pearl Harbor on December 7, 1941. Just 20 years old, Hryniewicz had joined the Navy less than two years earlier, eager to explore the world.
For decades, the Hryniewicz family clung to the letter written by his older brother after the attack, urging him to stay in touch and informing him he had become an uncle. The youngest of five children, Hryniewicz was the baby of the family and known for his charm with the ladies. His nieces and nephews grew up on stories of his adventures in the Navy.
"Darn your hide! Why in hell don't you write? Last Sunday we heard the Oklahoma had been sent to the bottom of Pearl Harbor, ever since then we've been sitting on pins and needles waiting to hear from you or from the Navy Department... P.S. you're now an uncle as of last Thursday 8:30 A.M.," his older brother wrote.
Frank's niece, Joie Hallstrom, was deeply inspired by her uncle's sacrifice and joined the U.S. Navy herself. She felt a sense of unfinished business, given how her uncle's life had been cut short.
"His presence in our family did something to me, and I know that it had a big influence on me joining the Navy. I really do because I felt like there was some unfinished business there," Hallstrom said.
On a sunny May afternoon, 10 members of the Hryniewicz family gathered at Arlington National Cemetery to honor their Uncle Frank, the first time they had assembled in years. The Navy granted him full military honors.
Frances Griffin, 81, named after her uncle, was overcome with emotion. "I've known all of this for so long. It's a part of my life and part of family lore. I was absolutely shocked that I started crying," Griffin said.
Griffin's father had written the letter to her Uncle Frank informing him of his new nephew. He passed away just three days before Hryniewicz's remains were identified.
"I just get the feeling that my dad would be conflicted. So happy that this is where Uncle Frank is but so sad of all the things he missed in life," Griffin said.
When the Japanese attacked Pearl Harbor, they strafed the deck of the USS Oklahoma, causing it to capsize. Hryniewicz and his fellow sailors were trapped inside the hull. For days, sailors could be heard banging from inside the doomed ship. Ultimately, 429 sailors on the Oklahoma were declared dead.
The Oklahoma was not flipped back over until 1944 to recover the sailors' remains. Initially, only 35 were identified. Sixty-one caskets and 45 graves were disinterred from the National Memorial Cemetery in Honolulu, and a single casket contained the partial remains of 100 sailors.
The Defense POW/MIA Accounting Agency has dedicated itself since 2015 to identifying the remains of those lost on the USS Oklahoma. Carrie LeGarde, project lead for the USS Oklahoma Identification Project, said her team has successfully identified 362 of the missing service members, or 92%.
"We needed to devote a lot of time and resources to this project to be that successful," LeGarde said. "We were able to provide answers to so many family members and that's really rewarding. It can be a little bit emotional, to be able to see kind of this part of the project, where men are being returned home or to other national cemeteries for burial and it's giving that kind of closing of a chapter in those families' history."
The Hryniewicz family expressed a profound sense of relief that their beloved uncle had finally received a proper burial. "What I feel is an incredible sense of relief. He's home. We brought him home. And I just believe so deeply that our veterans, deceased, present, we need to take care of these people who have put their lives on the line for us," Hallstrom said.
Hallstrom was particularly moved that her uncle would be buried alongside his shipmates. "For me, the importance of him being here is that he will not be forgotten. This is in perpetual honor. Anybody can see where he is and he's with his shipmates. And that gives me goosebumps. He's with the people who meant the most to him while he served," Hallstrom said.
